Kissed by a Flirtatious Taco Maker in La Paz, Mexico (Random Travel Moment #10)

Kissed by a taco maker

When I ate at my favorite local taco place in La Paz for the 4th time, I had no idea that I’d get more than some free samples. There was also an unexpected kiss from the taco maker.

How the heck did this happen?

Where Was I?

La Paz, Baja Sur, Mexico—at the Hermanos Rosario taco stand in the middle of town.

Taco stand, La Paz, Baja Sur, Mexico

How’d We Meet?

I’d been to this same place several times over the course of a few days. The reason? The tacos were delicious! And because of my repeat visits, the main taco maker and I got to know each other a bit. It was mostly small talk–at first.

I thought he was nice. He was also generous. And sure, he was a bit flirtatious. I didn’t take it seriously. Many Mexican men like to flirt.

When/How Did the Flirting Begin?

After the initial small talk ended, there were a few questions, like, “Are you married?” and “Why don’t you have a Mexican boyfriend?”

Were There Any Red Flags?

Well, yeah, actually. During my final visit, he gave me some samples of tacos I had yet to try–the seafood fillings, that is. There were scallops (wow), calamari  (yum) and, yes, oysters (OK, but not my favorite).

I think that last one should have told me something. :) .

How’d this craziness happen?

I was shooting some photos of the taco stand and asked if I could take one of him. He immediately said yes. (The guy was definitely a ham.) Then, he asked his coworker if she could take a photo of us together. She agreed to it.

Soon enough, I was standing next to him posing. After a couple of shots, he went in for the kiss.

Kissed by a taco maker


My face was already wet, covered with sweat, and now there was a wet kiss (look closely and you’ll see it) planted there, too.

I wasn’t sure if I should go with the flow or slap him. Hard.

I chose to laugh it off. I’ve been to Mexico plenty of times and know how flirtatious the men are. And he only kissed me on the cheek. Had he tried for lips, it would have been a different story. I would have slapped him so hard that the last taco he ate would have come out of him. :)

Why Me?

I can’t be sure, but maybe he really did have a mini crush on me. Maybe he thought I went back to the stand repeatedly not for the tacos, but for him?

Or maybe what I saw as an awful hair day was a good hair day to him.

Or he likes to kiss sweaty faces.

The lesson for me?  Don’t accept more than one free sample–and never accept an alleged aphrodisiac.  It could mean mixed messages and spell trouble. :)

What’s Up With the Bad Hair Day?

La Paz is hot and humid in August–so much so that bad hair days are guaranteed. Makeup, if you wear it, tends to come off, too.

My advice is:

A) don’t go to La Paz in July or August

B) If you do go, try to stay inside between 11 and 6

C) Try not to revisit the same taco stand too many times if you’re a single woman

Flirtatious taco maker

Your Thoughts? Reactions? Two Cents?

If you’d been in my shoes, would you have slapped the taco maker? Gone with the flow? Laughed? Backed away? Or something else?

Do you think that my mistake was in accepting the oysters? :) Would you have said, “Gracias, pero no gracias”?

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12 Responses to Kissed by a Flirtatious Taco Maker in La Paz, Mexico (Random Travel Moment #10)
  1. Roni Faida
    November 17, 2013 | 4:41 pm

    Well…he is a bit sweaty but hey, it adds to the experience of traveling, right? I would not have slapped him, I don’t think he was being inappropriate. Had he grabbed your butt or breasts or something then that would have been a different story but it was a harmless (although wet) cheek kiss.
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    • CB Driver
      November 17, 2013 | 8:10 pm

      Yes, the sweat (which I guess we could say was commingling in a sense) was an ‘experience’–LOL. True re: crossing a different line. That would have been a different story.

      It was definitely harmless–just a bit surprising. Makes for a fun story, too. :)

  2. Tom @ Waegook Tom
    November 17, 2013 | 6:09 pm

    That’s a bit cheeky! At least it was only on the cheek and not on the lips!
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    • CB Driver
      November 17, 2013 | 8:08 pm

      Hey, Tom–yes, cheeky is a great word for it. Double meaning, right? LOL Yeah, I wouldn’t have been cool with a lip kiss. Nope. :)

  3. Victoria
    November 17, 2013 | 6:56 pm

    I think it’s kinda cute. I guess you need to be careful but in a busy place in the middle of the day I guess you’re pretty safe. I always get worried if people start giving me free things, little alarm bells go off, but then, sometimes a little encounter like that makes it a memorable and fun experience. Take it as a compliment :)
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    • CB Driver
      November 17, 2013 | 8:07 pm

      I agree–now that I’m looking at the photo. Definitely ‘kinda cute.’ Ha ha. And a fun/funny random travel moment!

      True re: getting something for free. As they say, “There’s no free lunch.”

  4. Maria
    November 17, 2013 | 8:47 pm

    Oh girl, there you go, breaking hearts around the world.
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    • CB Driver
      November 18, 2013 | 7:10 am

      Ha ha, Maria…or maybe just taco makers’ hearts…

  5. Hogga
    November 21, 2013 | 10:57 am

    tacos AND a kiss? Count me in!
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    • CB Driver
      November 30, 2013 | 5:50 pm

      Yes, tacos and a kiss! Ha ha…

  6. Dana Carmel @ Time Travel Plans
    November 26, 2013 | 1:23 pm

    I think you handled it well by laughing it off. His face does look quite sweaty though.
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    • CB Driver
      November 30, 2013 | 5:44 pm

      Thanks, Dana! And yes–his face was sweaty. Very. Good thing mine was, too, or it would have been worse! LOL

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